There is a lot of junk circulating about what women find attractive in men. One of the common mistakes is listening to what women say they find attractive in men. When you ask them this, many times you get the tangibles, that is the common concrete physical features like tall, muscular, beard, or five-o-clock shadow, washboard abs, and so on. Women do find the tangible attractive, but compared to men, when surveyed one will find a lot more breadth here. There are some things most women like, like tall—but not too tall, and so on. The Problem for Guys The problem with the tangibles is that they generally can't be changed. If you tell a guy that is 5'5 that...
Hope this finds you well and you are off to a great start in the New Year! ro's are generally really frustrated these days. There are no rules any more for men. And the current social order and expectations for men is constantly changing! — I was reading something by Ryan Michler this morning who does the Order of Man Podcast. He mentioned that the 3rd Monday of January is considered by many the "most depressing day of the year"—especially for men. I have been thinking for a while to start providing some more useful content for dudes on our website blog. So I thought I would reach out and get your opinion on what are the unique challenges men are...
Why do We Fail in our Resolutions? It's that time of year again—the time for 'big changes," the time for turning over a new leaf, the time for resolutions. We have all heard the statistics about how eighty percent of New Year's resolutions are moth-balled by Valentine's Day and how eighty percent of those are defunct by St. Patty's. Whether those stats are real or not, we all believe the failure rate is high. Regardless, statistics are of little use. What matters is why. Why do so many of us fail to reach the goals we set for ourselves? My experience tells me there are several reasons. These are (1) We simply don't know ourselves; (2) We...
Five Key Mindset Elements For Success in My Entrepreneurial Journey I love the Entrepreneurial process. I have been in the “start-up” world of some type for about the last 13 years or so. It is not easy—sometimes even discouraging, but it sure is rewarding. I really kind of started down this path when I moved into outside sales. That took a whole lot more energy and start-up creativity to go out and build a successful sales territory. I think it was some of my most valuable experience for my personal entrepreneurial journey. It forced me out into the public in a new way, to start from scratch, and generate business. My first real foray into what we might call the...