In a previous post on the "Non-tangibles", I outlined how women have a broader palette of attraction than men generally do. There I talked about the "tangibles" and the "non-tangibles.' I pointed out how it is the non-tangibles that are in fact more important. Here I would like to list of some of the key non-tangibles that carry a lot of weight with women. And as I said in the previous post, unlike the tangibles (height, weight, fitness, etc.) the non-tangibles are not only more important, but they can be improved! Now don't get me wrong, women can be quite narrow at first meeting. They will look away, turn their body sideways to you, and many other body-language hints to...
There is a lot of junk circulating about what women find attractive in men. One of the common mistakes is listening to what women say they find attractive in men. When you ask them this, many times you get the tangibles, that is the common concrete physical features like tall, muscular, beard, or five-o-clock shadow, washboard abs, and so on. Women do find the tangible attractive, but compared to men, when surveyed one will find a lot more breadth here. There are some things most women like, like tall—but not too tall, and so on. The Problem for Guys The problem with the tangibles is that they generally can't be changed. If you tell a guy that is 5'5 that...
Hope this finds you well and you are off to a great start in the New Year! ro's are generally really frustrated these days. There are no rules any more for men. And the current social order and expectations for men is constantly changing! — I was reading something by Ryan Michler this morning who does the Order of Man Podcast. He mentioned that the 3rd Monday of January is considered by many the "most depressing day of the year"—especially for men. I have been thinking for a while to start providing some more useful content for dudes on our website blog. So I thought I would reach out and get your opinion on what are the unique challenges men are...
Why do We Fail in our Resolutions? It's that time of year again—the time for 'big changes," the time for turning over a new leaf, the time for resolutions. We have all heard the statistics about how eighty percent of New Year's resolutions are moth-balled by Valentine's Day and how eighty percent of those are defunct by St. Patty's. Whether those stats are real or not, we all believe the failure rate is high. Regardless, statistics are of little use. What matters is why. Why do so many of us fail to reach the goals we set for ourselves? My experience tells me there are several reasons. These are (1) We simply don't know ourselves; (2) We...
